My little sister has begun planning her June 2010 wedding, and I’m scouring my vast collection of wedding magazines and books for inspiration to begin designing the decor. Designing for a sister is particularly fun for me (I’ve done it once before), because of the freedom I get to really push the envelope.
When my sister Alyssa was married over three years ago, she basically gave me free reign to do whatever I wanted with her flowers. I chose the colors, the flowers, and the design style. But I was still developing my own design style and looking back, I cringe a little bit, because the flowers just weren’t up to my current standards. They were pretty and classic and for the time and the location (Tulsa, OK), really quite nice. But I know so much more about design now and have had my horizons expanded to such an extent, that I feel a little badly that Alyssa got the short end of the stick. Truthfully, hers was the first wedding that I designed utterly and completely on my own, unattached to a shop or another designer. And she loved her flowers, still does to this day- which is what really matters.
However, with a few more years under my belt, countless experiences working for crazy-amazing designers, and a lot of confidence in what I do, I think I can say that Olivia is going to get some phenomenal florals for her wedding. Because now, I don’t just think about the flowers, I design the wedding decor. I go for the bigger picture. When I’m working with a wedding planner, it’s such a fun collaborative effort to create a theme and then begin to collect all the little elements and bring them together to create a wedding masterpiece. When I’m working directly with a bride (which is the case with my sister Olivia), I can let my imagination run wild and sometimes that’s when the greatest, most creative work really happens.
In the next weeks and months I’ll probably share a lot of the inspiration I’m drawing for this wedding, which Olivia terms “Anthropolgie-esque,” a mix of glamour and rustic elegance. For now, here’s a spread that I scanned ages ago from a Martha Stewart Wedding magazine. I love everything about this wedding: the faux bois theme (like I said, I scanned this ages ago, long before the recent popularity of faux bois), the wild-flower arrangements, the moss-covered table, the textures and colors, that magnificent tent. Talk about inspiration!
To see the images more clearly, click directly on the photo- you’ll be taken to flickr where you can choose “All Sizes” and then view them “Large.”